Who You Are is a Choice

You need to stop blaming others for how your life turned out. You are a product of many decisions and choices you made along the way. Yes, shit happens. Yes, many things are beyond your control. But how you react and respond to this is your choice. Even being passive and allowing someone else to be in charge and make decisions on your behalf are still choices, and you are still responsible and own those, too.

Blaming someone else is a diversion tactic. It can make you feel vindicated for awhile, but overtime it will cause the flow and balance within your energetic body to slow, pause, and even start to swirl in place. This is called stagnation. Eventually that stagnation contributes to being moody, sad, angry, or carry a sense of dread. It is not a positive energy. That swirl of 'stuckness' then seems to be merge into a cycle of repeating patterns that your Higher Self will use to provide you with opportunities - all designed to help you learn and grow. When you make that change, the lesson that was embedded in that cycle of repeating swirl now goes away, a new and different path opens up and you finally get to move on! 

This will be a great time to stop those judgments, blame, and sense of victimhood (or entitlement) and create some new thoughts and feelings that define who you really are. This is the time to change your perspective and create a new one. This will allow that inner flow of spiritual energies within you to flow and allow your soul to expand, fly, and even soar.  It will be worth the change.