The Deepest Point of Vulnerability

In a relationship you can get to the point where your hearts can connect and truly become joined.  To get to this point, however, you have to be willing to take an extreme risk that most don’t or won’t take. It is where you allow yourself to be totally exposed emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically to your partner. 

If you arrive at this connection point, you can join in such a way that you literally can feel yourself soar to new heights that are without boundaries. It is where a new energy has been created within you. But also at that same connecting point is an awareness you are now totally open and vulnerable. You can be completely destroyed by your partner should they choose to flip that switch and if flipped, the pain can send you to the greatest depths of despair accompanied with paralyzing pain because your emotions, soul, mind, and heart have been pierced and severed.

If you arrive at this connection point and open yourself up to both of you being completely open and available in your body, mind, soul, and all emotions - a special connection is created, and at that deepest point of connection, it becomes lit and you can literally feel a new energy being created within you. This is what will allow your soul to take flight and barriers removed. It is an amazing experience beyond anything you will ever feel. It is like the next level of a kundalini energy shower experience.

The opportunity to soar to new places along with that feeling of complete and total ecstasy is something few experience. The risk is great, but so too is the reward.

Fall Equinox

Today is the Fall Equinox. It is the historical time when we celebrate the harvest. In prior generations, the Fall Equinox usually was a big community celebration with the sharing of the earth's bounty of food along with rituals to honor the planet. In our modern era this big cosmic event has morphed mostly into becoming pumpkin spice season. But we can celebrate this marker in time and can still direct our thoughts, hearts, and gratitude and  direct it back to mother earth. 

We can give honor and support to the planet in our own way on this day. Perhaps a loving toast with a glass of wine. Or maybe sharing some of your garden harvest with friends or neighbors. Or maybe have a meditative hike at sunset and give a blessing to the planet as the sun ends its day.  

On this Fall Equinox, I am reminded there is value in allowing our minds to unfold and be open to have new wonders and experiences join our soul. For example, we can get to a mindset and allow ourselves to experience what it is like to be a rock. We can sit stationary and feel all aspects of being that element. Or we can choose to experience becoming a flower, for example. We can then see and feel the colors, textures, shapes, as well as fragrance from that sensual experience. We can even allow the experience between the flower and the insects and marvel at what interchange occurs in that window of connection.

The Fall Equinox can be a time to be engaged and connected with the planet in many different ways - all can have value and purpose in enhancing your life experience on this planet.